here's a tip for you about sex that will make most of your relations so much easier to deal with...
If someone gives you a hard and fast rule about what a particular sex likes and does not like... ignore them.
They are stupid.
If they present you with a list of dos and don'ts that are 'universal'... ignore them.
They are stupid.
If they try to convince you that men see sex and love as seperate things and women do not... don't ignore them... LAUGH AT THEM.
because they are stupid and it's probably a hopeless case.


I'll rant more about this later.
Because I'm so sick of the bullshit stereotypes.