You are married.
You live with your husband and child.
(or your wife)
You have a signifigant other somewhere else.
Some other country
you think of them as your boy/girlfriend.
You think of them as your love.
that person you live with .. that you have a child with? that.. HAH.. that's just some GUY/CHICK... who the hell are *they*?
Just that person that you sleep in the same bed with, raise your child with, share your life with ...
just no one..
Someone explain this to me.