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Nov. 12th, 2001

Don't run around talking about marriage and kids when you can't go a day without worrying about them leaving you, or hurting you, or just fucking WHINING about someone not living up to every ounce of what you've decided they should be.


find someone you dig and then start making plans.
don't make plans and then try to find someone to fit them.

and then stress and bitch when they just aren't your type of perfect.

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hibikitour
Nov. 12th, 2001 09:35 am (UTC)
Woohoo! Preaching to the choir here.
maddening
Nov. 12th, 2001 10:01 pm (UTC)
There ought to be a law...

or at least some sort of polite request....
alara
Nov. 12th, 2001 03:59 pm (UTC)
You've never met me. You don't know who I am. You don't know the kind of things that go through my mind and how I deal with them.

Chad is really cool in my book and I'm very happy for him.

But if you have a problem with my journals, then don't read them. I am not on your friends list. Nor are you on mine. So you have no obligation nor are you forced to read the things I write.

So if it pisses you off. If my whining makes you mad. If my insecurities offend you. Then it's very easy to just.not.read.it.

I use my journal as a way of venting my frustrations, my problems, my insecurities. It's my own form of therapy as it rightly should be.

I'm not angry. I'm not offended. I'm not up in arms. I'm simply saying to please stop trashing on me in your journal and in mine.

If you don't like what you see, please shut it off.
maddening
Nov. 12th, 2001 04:05 pm (UTC)
Excuse you?
I made a comment in your journal with all I had to say about your situation.
This? Here in my journal?
This isn't about you.

This is about a whole myriad of people I know and have known for years who are pulling this routine.. this... I need my dreams and will force the nearest person into them.. routine.

I was talking about things that have me annoyed in my own life.
And, quite frankly, this unwarranted response from you in my journal has *me* up in arms.
I *am* offended.

Why you think that you are of such importance that I would rant about you, someone I don't know, know nothing about, have never met, have never talked to, have never had a SINGLE thing to do with, is beyond me.

If you don't like the comment I left in your journal, fucking delete it.. don't wander over to my journal and assume that you make that much of a blip on my fucking screen.

alara
Nov. 12th, 2001 04:10 pm (UTC)
I apologize for assuming. It just correlated so well with what you had said in mine that I assumed. This was my fault. I don't want to make enemies with you. I was actually looking very forward to meeting you when you were here, but that didn't work out.

Again. I apologize. I'm not looking for a fight. I'm glad you've come into Chad's life and I am very supportive of that. I screwed up by assuming things that weren't intended.
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