A Non-Newtonian Fluid (maddening) wrote,
A Non-Newtonian Fluid

I don't like the phrase "non confrontational"
Not as a general philosophy on life anyway.
I suppose it works for some people.
But, me?
Sometimes, I just have to confront.
I don't hide from the things that bother me.
except one.
And that's just because the time hasn't come. I'm not ready for that one.
Everything else? confronted. If I have a problem with you, I tell you. If you do something that pisses me off, you know immediately and we talk about it (or you fuck off, or both)

I don't understand the point in living a non confrontational life.
Just scurrying along and keeping your mouth shut is something that may work. It probably makes you really good friends with a lot of people... well.. you're THEIR really good friend anyway.
I see the virtue in avoiding drama. Those with the most dramatic lives usually *make* them dramatic. That's something I've done in the past as well.

I dunno.. just trying to puzzle out the modes with which people go through life. Everyone seems to have a philosophy.
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