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Giving them what they want...

There are certain LJ users that I have a weird tenuous connection too.

I severed what lil bit of a tenuous connection I had becuase I ... well... I really didn't fucking like her and it pisses me off when I see lazy, self centered assholes, raising children on state funding and massive doses of television.
Single parnent's have to be fucking saints.
They just do. It's not fair. Nope. Not fair at all. But the TV is not the babysitter and you getting a new dress or new shoes or new movies or MORE mindless entertainment for yourself or the child isn't top fucking priority.
I took her off my list here because I hated seeing her journal.
I skipped on over today because of a post from a friend.

She's even WORSE now.
I'm SORRY that I've read it because now, instead of passively really not giving a fuck about her, I actively don't like her.
"Apparently he wants to have some kind of rant about/at me, but once again, he's scared of his own words"

Only because you insist on taking him apart for them.
Start leaving him the fuck alone and he might start doing the same.
Go be happy with the father of the kid that you claim to be so in love with.

Basically... FUCK OFF and live your life the way you've said you want it to be lived.
QUIT feeling the need to hurl comments.
QUIT reading his fucking journal to find things to be annoyed about.
Finally be the ADULT and PARENT and more mature and STABLE one that you claim you are.
As it stands, you're a fucking child, who got fucked, spit out a kid, fucked over some people and think that the title 'mommy' somehow makes you immediately fucking better than everyone.

YOU are unstable.
YOU have issues you haven't dealt with.
YOU fucked him over just as much as he fucked you over.
YOU DO have reason to feel guilty.
YOU SHOULD be a little bit more fucking mature here.
YOU NEED TO QUIT POSTING SHIT LIKE THIS "Either way, I wouldn't piss on him if he was on fire at the moment."
JUST TO PROVE TO YOUR NEW ONE THAT YOU REALLY DON'T LIKE YOUR OLD ONE.

Just typing in the big bold letters because I dont' think anyone else has really had the balls to do so.
You're being a total cunt.
stoppit.
Quit giving him ammo and he'll quit hurling insults.



Yeah, I realize some of you know who I'm talking about and yeah, I realize that some of you may have arguments for me.
I would HOPE that if there were someone I had a VERY public longstanding very emotional fight with that some of you would be able to tell me what was up... especially if I was in the wrong.

Comments

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dlbags
Dec. 11th, 2001 12:53 pm (UTC)
Dammit woman...LINK ME!
tithonus
Dec. 11th, 2001 03:03 pm (UTC)
lj isn't the whole of their interaction... but i have to say from lj alone i'd be reaching the same conclusion as you.. but i don't know what else, if anything goes between them.. i don't think any of this will help - i just hope all this snipping will stop. reading it is emotionally draining.
tithonus
Dec. 11th, 2001 03:05 pm (UTC)
i should add to that to make clear.... i just don't care who is "to blame", who is "wrong", who is "right". it doesn't matter a damn. the sniping is the problem not some allocation of blame. hence i am very reluctant to keep the previous comment. i hope it isn't take the wrong way.
maddening
Dec. 11th, 2001 03:13 pm (UTC)
I agree completely, really.
it doesn't matter who's been the bad guy. It doesn't matter who's keeping it going. One of them (because it doesn't look like it will be both) should just stop. And stop actively getting all their friends involved and making them choose.

I chose to make this post. I'm still not involved. I'm not really concerned with how it will be taken, because I think alex knows me well enough to understand my intent and I don't think lenore actually reads my journal, though if she did, I don't give a damn what her reaction is.
This was an expression of *my* frustrations in reading all this.
tithonus
Dec. 11th, 2001 10:09 pm (UTC)
"I think alex knows me well enough to understand my intent and I don't think lenore actually reads my journal"

i don't think either know me well enough, or me them, to know our intents. :-/
maddening
Dec. 11th, 2001 03:09 pm (UTC)
I want them BOTH to leave each other alone. Seeing him constantly going on about it, while understandable for both of them, just makes them both seem to utterly childish.

I've bit my lip about all of it for a long long time. Since they were together and still their own special version of "happy."
It's not my place to snipe. Not my place to complain, and it's pretty childish of me that I've posted anything about it in the first place.

It's just so utterly irritating that they can't help but pick on each other the exact same way they picked on each other while they were together.

I know that LJ isn't their only interaction. He's always talking about his IRC conversations.
It just needs to all end. And it seems he won't back off of his reading of her journal, so she needs to be the bigger one and stop reading his, talking to him, period.
If one of them ends the contact, they can being to end the conflict.
tithonus
Dec. 11th, 2001 10:07 pm (UTC)
"I want them BOTH to leave each other alone. Seeing him constantly going on about it, while understandable for both of them, just makes them both seem to utterly childish."

complete assent.
luvrhino
Dec. 11th, 2001 03:27 pm (UTC)
cunts, total
Hell, i'm just happy they're doing it in their own little journals rather than on goats-fans.

Remember those days? With subbes joining in on the fun?

-ken, doesn't like watching those two do it
subbes
Dec. 11th, 2001 03:31 pm (UTC)
Re: cunts, total
Bite me, dear.
subbes
Dec. 11th, 2001 03:33 pm (UTC)
Re: cunts, total
Hang on.... define "joining in on the fun"? Am I a cunt, too?
luvrhino
Dec. 11th, 2001 03:42 pm (UTC)
Re: cunts, total
define "joining in on the fun"?

Holding a private pissing contest in a public forum.

Am I a cunt, too?

Well sure, but i wasn't referring to your cunt-like qualities in the post above...the subject was taken from Miss Maddening's original post about "those two"...

-ken, notes that my beloved Punkalicia is also a cunt

subbes
Dec. 11th, 2001 03:43 pm (UTC)
Re: cunts, total
Isn't most of goats-fans a pissing contest taken public? The andy debates, for instance?
subbes
Dec. 11th, 2001 03:53 pm (UTC)
Re: cunts, total
Well, you had to go bring me into it, though? Tch.
(Anonymous)
Dec. 11th, 2001 04:16 pm (UTC)
no subbes
"A subbe is a chick who thinks she's fly

but she can't do no trig-on-ometry...

whining in her stupid journal, trying to mack on geeks.

... I don't want no subbes, mmmmm no subbes."
subbes
Dec. 11th, 2001 04:21 pm (UTC)
Re: no subbes
Hello, antisense. Still angry? Thought so.
maddening
Dec. 11th, 2001 05:04 pm (UTC)
Re: no subbes
christ.
If I thought this was going to open up people to ANONYMOUS, COWARDLY flaming, I wouldn't have fucking posted it.

Don't ever post anonymously on my journal again.
subbes
Dec. 11th, 2001 05:55 pm (UTC)
Re: no subbes
Don't worry about it -- it's an issue he has with me, not with you or your journal. He's only posting it here cause I banned him from my journal.
maddening
Dec. 11th, 2001 06:29 pm (UTC)
Re: no subbes
it's still cowardly bullshit I won't put up with.
I know it's not an issue with me. I've never had much to do with him and I remember the issue he had with you.
Makes no difference.
(Anonymous)
Dec. 11th, 2001 04:07 pm (UTC)
What can you say?
Well done needed to be said, and put so well:@)
(Anonymous)
Dec. 11th, 2001 06:39 pm (UTC)
Bravo; I await the paper release of your journal entry, which should be entitled "Avalon_Bliss for Dummies".

I'm an outsider, but I think your summary from what I've read of her and Grim's journals pretty much sums her up. You even caught the "raising her bastard child off of the taxpayer's expense" part that I'm sure most people have thought but not actually said.

One final point; I actually had difficulty working out which one was the father in one of the recent family photos. Disturbingly asexual.
maddening
Dec. 11th, 2001 07:03 pm (UTC)
Don't put quotes around things I didn't say.
"bastard child" hardly entered into what I said as I'd never call Jude a "bastard child"

I can't believe I've had two anonymously posting UK people posting in my journal about this shit. I at LEAST know and am friends with one of participants in this crap.

Anonymous posting is cowardly.
You want to give me kudos and you don't have an LJ account? try email. it's right there in my user info.
emeraldgrrl
Dec. 13th, 2001 05:38 am (UTC)
Just a thought. . .
Opinions are like arseholes- everybody has one.

Let ye who is free of sin cast the first stone. . .

*Emerald*

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