I really do think it's a self delusion.
It's something people want, convince themselves it will work, and just keep clinging desperately to that. Maybe if you just don't care *too* much about anyone involved.
I am one of those silly fuckers that thinks that humans aren't really built for it.
IF YOU ... YOU... want to establish a polyamorous relationship and it works out for you, excellent, I'm glad you found a way that you can have a relationship... some people never do.
But proselytizing seems to go hand in hand with the polyamory enthusiasts and I'm sick of trying to be converted.
Not that that's what this guy did. Not at all. I just happened to wake up with this chip on my shoulder? Heh.. and no, I'm not going to apologize. So I was an ass ::shrug::: I'll have to live with that.