I hate it like that. It's long, limp and lifeless and all I ever do is twist it up and put a hair clip in it because it looks horrendous just laying there.
So I just took a pair of scissors and gave myself a haircut. took off 8 to 10 inches and gave myself actual bangs. I'm sure I'll continue fussing with it in the coming weeks and it will probably end up shorter, but it's sort of, curling around the edges of my neck and I guess it's a good length.
It's a uniform mousey dark blonde color now though... gonna have to fix that.